Service to Self? — OR — Service to Others?

Me Service to SelfAmong the many distinctions between the 3rd Dimension and the 5th Dimension is the difference between the path of Service to Self and that of Service to Others. The path of Service to Self has also been characterized by a posture of “power over others”  as a basic, underlying strategy for living life. Conversely, the followers of the path of Service to Others have dedicated their lives to the service of a greater identity beyond their personal agendas. This idea may be confusing when contemplated from a 3rd Dimensional perspective, because both paths exist side in by side in this dimension for our use and education. Each of us can recall many instances during our lives where our actions were taken solely for personal gain, without regard for the consequences to “others.” However, we can also cite many situations where we acted out of genuine concern for an “other.”  I am putting the word “other” in quotation marks here to denote that this concept (that I am one being and you are an “other”) IS indeed the grand illusion that has kept the game of 3D separation and duality going.

Credit: Diane BourbonnaisLogo for Ottawa Birth 2012

Credit: Diane Bourbonnais
Logo for Ottawa Birth 2012

Guess what? It’s time for us to get over this belief, because our Mother has said “Enough!” She has called this game and is moving steadily into the 5th Dimension where there is ONLY ONENESS, where the only game on the new playing field is Service to the Whole. Are we ready to move with her? Let’s take a look.

First, let me say that I do not consider the path of Service to Self wrong or bad. It is a learning tool and a much needed contrast in the dimensions of polarity, where learning is gained through working with the contrasts of shadow and light. The concept of reincarnation, helps us to understand that each of us at one time or another has played this shadow role in order to balance some experience gained in a prior life. Because of the “veil of forgetting” that one passes through in order to enter this playing field of the 3rd Dimension, it is often necessary to repeat these lessons many times before the  balance is achieved. One example of this might be a person who takes the “role” of a leader in one lifetime and abuses his position of authority by treating his subordinates harshly. He then agrees to balance that experience by taking the “role” of the subordinate in another lifetime to serve someone who similarly abuses power. Many times, because of the “veil, ” the remembrance of the purpose of  balancing the karma of the prior lifetime is completely forgotten and more imbalance is the outcome of that learning opportunity. Hence, the soul is reborn into another situation that provides yet another opportunity to balance out the choices of the past. This seemingly endless cycle of birth, death and rebirth is often referred to as the Wheel of Karma.

Is there any escape from this cycle, you may ask?

Yes, there is and that opportunity is being offered to us right NOW!

We closed out a Great Cycle of “time” last December 21st. At the end of such cycles (approximately every 25,000 ears) humanity is given the opportunity to Ascend, i.e., leave the Wheel of Karma and “graduate,” if you will, to the next playing field. Of course, there is a small catch — you have to be ready (have completed enough karmic lessons) to graduate. This particular time (for reasons I will not go into in this post) we are being given immense help in order for as many of Humanity to step onto the new 5th Dimensional playing field as possible.

Wave after wave of exalted energy is being sent to prepare us for our graduation ceremony. These waves have been coming for about 25 years; however, they have increased exponentially during the past two or three. AND they will not stop until every human who sincerely desires to step off the 3D playing field and onto the 5D one has made themselves ready to graduate.

DON’T PANIC!   You will not be left behind.

You will not have to repeat “3rd grade” — unless you want to. Believe it or not, there are people on the planet who actually want to keep playing this 3rd Dimensional game. This is their freewill choice and it is a perfectly valid choice, as there is no requirement whatsoever, in the grand scheme of things, that anyone rush on to the next level.

The prerequisites needed to enter the 5th Dimensional game of Oneness are: 1) our genuine intention to do so; and 2) our willingness to align with the incoming energies that are here to assist us to upgrade our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies. These intense energies are also helping us release any last remnants of our polarized, power-over, control-oriented frequencies and mindsets that have kept us on the Wheel of Karma for so long.

NO WORRIES!   There is also a matter of DIVINE GRACE at play here, so it is not solely up to us.

Our situation is not exactly like a “Get Out of Jail Free” card but it’s close.  Still, releasing the past and self-forgiveness are strongly recommended.

Many of you reading this post will recognize that long ago you chose the path of Service to Others, or as I said earlier, Service to the Whole. You make a practice of considering the other person’s (group’s) point of view; you think of how the situation might feel to them; you respond rather than react. It may have taken many years and many seeming failures to get to the place where (most of the time) you are looking beyond your own personal needs to consider a solution that benefits all parties involved. You practice the Golden Rule. You understand that what you send out returns to you in kind, so you are kind. You are quick to forgive and reluctant to carry grudges. These actions are all characteristic of one who travels the path of Service to Others, a required course for graduating onto a 5D playing field.

This is the direction we are going as a Human Species. This is the path that is being supported and upheld by the energies of our Galactic Center, since we crossed the elliptic on December 21, 2012. It is a path of mutual respect, honoring and love. It is a path of kindness. It is a shared journey of cooperation, co-creation, peace and joy. It is a game of Unity.

These are the graduation requirements. Now it’s up to each one of us to complete the work required to continue on to the next level of learning. Those who want to continue on a path of Service to Self will not be able to access this new playing field. One must enter with an open heart, ready to trust, available for surrendering to love.

I don’t know about you but I feel as though I’ve outgrown the old 3D playing field and I’m ready for a new one. If you feel that way too, then let’s go on together into a new game of cooperation, co-creation, harmony, peace, joy and love.

New Playing Field

Why wait?   Let’s begin our new 5D game NOW!  On a Brand New Playing Field 


19 thoughts on “Service to Self? — OR — Service to Others?

    • Hello Maddy — I am thrilled for your experience of living life so freely! I think your Rio trip turned out to be an opening for you that was beyond your comprehension when you accepted the assignment. I have heard that the energy of living in South America is much more relaxed and “human.” Thank you for sharing your beingness with us. Blessings and Hallelujah! ♥ ♫ ☼

      On Thu, Apr 4, 2013 at 2:07 AM, 13th Paradigm

  1. [ Smiles ] We are all interconnected. Once I give my service to others, I automatically give service to myself.

    • Thank you Marga for holding this vision with me for all of Humanity and our beautiful planet. Re-membering (putting back together) what has been separated, scattered, dispersed — that is what we are doing now. That’s teh mission we came to do and we’re doing it! Almost Home! Blessings, Alia

      On Fri, Mar 29, 2013 at 7:20 PM, 13th Paradigm

  2. Such a beautiful article……. oh I only wish I could respond more rather than REACT. I do realize my weaknesses yet I usually fail to implement what I know because my emotions are confusing me. Would be awesome to walk the 5th dimension. It is pretty painful to leave certain attitudes behind, sometimes the cure can be very painful I am struggling with it a lot. For some people it might take a lot of courage to abandon their old behaviors. And I am one of those, but for some reason someone/something up there wants me to go further and I cannot stop it. Might be my own soul that is saying to my personality that she cannot do the things certain way anymore.

    • Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us and appreciating this post. I believe that the main thing that will take us forward at this time is our intention to transcend our ego-based impulses. We are getting so much assistance from “unseen helpers.” Some people call these beings angels, others call them guides. It doesn’t matter but they are there to help us overcome our shadow side right now (and always) and shake loose those reactions and turn them into responses. Ask for assistance (as they cannot act on our behalf without our invitation) and always ask that only beings of Light come to your aid and protection. We are traveling together now and our power grows as our numbers increase. It matters not that we meet only in Blogland and do not know each other in person. We are bringing our energies together and uniting our hearts as ONE. So happy to have you among us. Welcome to the 13th Paradigm, Alia

    • Absolutely Athena — one of the great (and still mystifying) aspects of the 5th Dimension is that the interior space actually can be larger than an exterior space, so there is room for everyone who wants to come on this ride and play the new game. We would all miss you, too! Please invite your sweet Hubbie and those adorable kids and grand-kids you mentioned in a recent post. Much love, Alia

      On Tue, Mar 26, 2013 at 6:56 AM, 13th Paradigm

  3. Ready for an upgrade here, Alia. I can’t wait to join you, Tomas, Maddy, and others on the 5D playing field. Love all. Serve all. is my motto until i get there. {{{Hugs}}} Kozo

    • Dear Kozo — your motto will take you “there.” Thank you for being a trailblazer to our New Reality. Peace and love (and Hugs too) Alia

      On Mon, Mar 25, 2013 at 8:02 PM, 13th Paradigm

    • Yes welcome aboard Kozo! As I recall, you’ve always been with us. I’ll check the manifest, yup 1st class to 5D one way, no layovers! See ya on the inside chief. ♥

      • Absolutely! And the only thing I would add to that is that your visa is good for *any* of the higher dimensions as well — your choice, Brother! Much love, Alia

        On Thu, Apr 4, 2013 at 2:20 AM, 13th Paradigm

  4. “let’s go on together into a new game of cooperation, co-creation, harmony, peace, joy and love” ~ I’m on board! I love the phrase that we are on the “return path” – and I see all of us realizing that what we really want it to live peacefully together. Your wonderful blog supports this realization – thank you, My Love! Tomas

    • Yes My Dear, from this point on we go together — the solitary path is no more. It’s a Unity game now and we are being brought together as if by and “unseen hand.” There is no efforting in our gathering. Communities are forming easily and naturally. We are attracting the ones we need to be with quickly and gracefully. Our WordPress community is expanding rapidly. Thank you for being at my side through this Shift of the Ages. Much love, Alia

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